High School?!!!

[RoxyRocks]

awww haha 2 and a ahalf years wow that is crazy well I got my heart broken by my first love of about 7 monthes but then about 2 monthes later i met the best guy he is a little older than me about 2 years he is 18 and me 16 but iam almost 17 and we are going on 4 monthes now it is great it took me and my ex jonathan 5 monthes to say i love you and me and Matt my now boyfriend said i love you after two monthes so i knew i was really in love


love rocks


so babylupin you getting married?

[babylupin]

uh..maraige? *hides*

I you can't guess, marraige scares me at this stage...I'm only 18...give it another 2-3 years thanks.

Luckily my partner feels the same!

I'd be fine just having a life partner...marraige is just a piece of paper in my view, it doesn't dictate or change your emotions.

I love him. He loves me.

Kids one day, and more than likely marraige before hand, but that doesn't bother us.

[nutz4hpotter6]

I got married when I was 21 years old. You know when you are ready to get married. I have been happily married for 18 years. Many of my family members thought we were too young to get married. Like any couple we have our problems and all you can do is communicate with each other.

Don't rush into marriage enjoy yourself now.

[RoxyRocks]

Wow thats sweet babylupin

I think marriage streghtens a relationship but what do i know about that i am just in high school haha

my friend got pregant so they got married and are really happy together.

they were only 15 and 17 but it was legal but not in our state so they had to go to another one to actually get marries.

me and my boyfriend arent even thinking about that now and i am so happy about that!

[babylupin]

That's cool Nutz. If I ever got married...I would be closer to 25, assuming that I'm still with Russel (which I'm close to certain I will be lol)

I hope you're ot after about 4 months! lol

I'm take things so slow, it's surprising tha we're not going backwards sometimes...it took a whole lot of convincing for me to agree to move out with him...but I don't regret it.

At least he remembers to put the toilet seat down if nothing else.

[nutz4hpotter6]

That is good that he remembers the toilet seat for now. I never lived with my husband before marriage because my parents wouldn't allow it. I wasn't like my sister who pretended to get an apartment by herself when in actuality her and her now husband lived together. I was just too honest. Met my husband in June of '89 and got married in Oct. '89.

Everyone is different when it comes to romance and love.

I agree with baby lupin, about that.

[babylupin]

Wow that was a quick engagement, and you're still together.

Everyone really is different, like my friend Doug, different from most guys...completly wants to be married by the time he's 20.

My parents are cool with it, they trust me, so that's good. They're not stupid, as they know how long we've been together...but they know we're not silly.

[nutz4hpotter6]

Yeah well my parents are/were very old fashioned. You shouldn't have sex before marriage, shouldn't live together before your married. It was our religion (Roman Catholic) that dictated to my parents.

I am not like that with my kids. I talk to them and let them know how I feel about things.

I always wanted to be married by the time I was 25 and have at least 2 kids before I turned 30. I did it all before I was 25 and not because I wanted to either.

We had actually gotten engaged in June. We had met in mid April. We were going to get married Sept of 1990 then some thing happened (got pregnant) and we moved the date up. I then had a miscarriage and we still decided to get married even though my parents, especially my mom, wanted us to push the wedding back to the original date.

[babylupin]

Oh, a miscarriage, that must have been unbearable.

I hate hearing about miscarraige's and stillbirths. Something like that would just kill me. It really, really would.

My mum and dad are really understanding, and my Gparents. My family is pretty laid back lol.

[nutz4hpotter6]

That is great Babylupin.

The miscarriage was hard at first, I have realized over time that there was a reason for me to loose the baby.

I try to be understanding with my kids too.

[babylupin]

*nods*

I think that being understanding with your children actually stops them from doing more stupid things.

Like, my parents were understanding, and more talk to you than yell at you, while one girl I know's parents were so hard on her, she filped out in the other direction when ever she wasn't at home or with her parents.

And her natural way, wasn't act like that way, it's because she had no control on her own life with her parents around. She was always doing everything they wanted her to do, so she rebelled.

[RoxyRocks]

Yeah I know what you mean about that kind of girl my friend Olivia did that all the time and now she is pregannt her parents were loaded and they disowned her. it was sad. let her stay at my place for a while.


I am Roman Catholic too that is so cool! not many HP people are catholic and I love my religion I love my boyfirned but he wants me to move in with him this summer when he gets a job up town wehere I work but i dont want to he is way too pushey, kinda scary though but i love hima nd i know he would mnever hurt me.

Yeah being understanding big plus especailly with 16 year olds!!! hint hint haha

My mother had a miscarriage before me and it was sad knowing what would happen to me if i had that one brother.

[nutz4hpotter6]

Oh your mom knew the sex of the baby. I didn't my miscarriage was in the first trimester, too early to tell.

Yes I am Roman Catholic, I don't believe in everything I was taught when I was in school, just because I have grown over the years and have looked in to other religions. Plus I didn't care for some of the priests in the different parishes here. Along with all the problems with the molestation going on.

Wow to move in with your boyfriend at the age of 16, that is young. My daughter's boyfriend stays at our house because his mom's house is too small for all the people that live there. They talk about getting an apartment when she goes to college. We will wait to see....

[babylupin]

Pushy is not good. If he's too pushy, open up and let him know you're not going to be walked all over.

I hate seeing young girls get walked over by idiotic males. I've always been pretty much a feminist...and it took ages to get a guy to realise, just because he asks, I don't have to date him. (So glas Russ is understanding that we both wear the pants in this relationship)

Moving in together at 16, and not having dated for more than a year is something that, no offence, at that age, I don't entirely agree with. I was iffy at age 18 moving in with Russ.

I have no religion. I'm not atheist, but my parents are. I like Buddhism. I like the concepts of it. And I think that there is someone out there keeping files on us to maintain cosmic balance.

[nutz4hpotter6]

I don't think my daughter would ever want to move in with her boyfriend at that age. They are both still in school and trying to have better jobs for when they do move out.

I think that their is a 'god' for everyone. We may not all call him the same thing, but I think we all believe in a force beyond our control. I may have been brought up Catholic but I don't practice it like my parents would like me too. I don't feel that I should have to go through a priest to be forgiven for sins. I also don't think I should be giving about half my pay check to them either.