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Post by Samantha (Magic is a Mystery) on Apr 4, 2008 12:07:39 GMT -5
I haven't had a boyfriend yet and I am in no hurry to either. I am 18 and still young. I am concentrating on college atm. I want to get a job, I am going to start looking next wekk now I am starting my easter break now. I don't go back till 21 april. My sister has been engaged for two weeks to her 2 and year boyfriend now Fiancee. But they knew each other in high school but didn't go out till sixth form. My sister and her Fiancee are both 20 years old.
My mum got married to my dad at 18. My mum and dad are happily married 22 years this year in september.
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Post by RoxyRocks on Apr 6, 2008 16:31:32 GMT -5
wow thats great Sam for your parents!!!
yeah my boyfriend is a bit pushy but its hust that whole macho thing guys think they have but dont. I love him so much but I dont want to move in with him yet but its this thing we are doing all summer which is for a precollege project type thing we are doing and we have to live on the campus but we stayed in the dorms last year and they were icky so this year we were going to get an apartment and our parents said it was cool but idk if i am ready because they are all seperate room things but i pshhh we wouldnt do that haha but idk if i am ready for those pressures you know? he just wants to be with me which is sweet but i mean he is two years older than me so idk its not illegal or anything but i mean isk if i am ready wiht him.
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Post by nutz4hpotter6 on Apr 6, 2008 20:01:11 GMT -5
That is great about your parent's Sam. Every one is different when it comes to finding their mate. Some people want to do things fast. And some times you find it when you aren't looking for it.
Roxy I don't know what to tell you. It sounds like you are confused. If it is only for a college thing then I don't see what the problem is.
Now about him being pushy. Everyone can be pushy to a certain extent. I think guys just show the pushy side more then girls do.
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Post by Samantha (Magic is a Mystery) on Apr 7, 2008 10:05:00 GMT -5
All I say Roxy don't do anything until you are 100% sure about it. I f your not sure then don't push into anything you don't want. Sit down and talk to him about it I am sure he will understand, and hopefully things will work out for you both Rox good luck with it.
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Post by RoxyRocks on Apr 9, 2008 20:05:23 GMT -5
yeah thanks guys for the support I will tell yall what is going on with all what is going on with me and Matt,
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Post by babylupin on Apr 10, 2008 20:44:56 GMT -5
Yeap, most definately, if he starts to put the pressure on, and becomes pushy...have nice long chat.
Nutz, you're right that everyone is pushy, but I'm not entirely sure if the guys tend to be more pushy than the girls...I know quite a few very pushy girls...but, I do feel that initially, the guy tends to be more pushy...but in some girls, that can change.
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Post by Samantha (Magic is a Mystery) on Apr 11, 2008 4:59:08 GMT -5
I agree girls can be pushy aswell as guys. Its not worth doing something that you later might regret. Time won't go back for just one person. At the end of the day you both have to take responsibility and consider the conscequences of both of your actions and consider what effect it will have on the relationship.
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Post by RoxyRocks on Apr 13, 2008 20:35:52 GMT -5
yeah but I hae to admit I am rather pushy as well so I cant say anything but he is more pushy than me. in all the people I know guys seem to be a little more pusshy.
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Post by nutz4hpotter6 on Apr 13, 2008 20:47:31 GMT -5
I think guys can be pushy when it comes to certain things. I know I can be pushy about things too.
Being pushy can be good at times, but not very often.
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Post by RoxyRocks on Apr 14, 2008 19:26:37 GMT -5
yeah if your pushing like drugs not so much but if you are pushing your frined to go to college instead of working at dairy queen their whole life thats a good kind
haha i work at dairy queen! but i am so gong to college
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Post by nutz4hpotter6 on Apr 14, 2008 20:08:54 GMT -5
Hey you never know you could really go some place working at Dairy Queen. You may wind up owning a franchise.
Yeah that is a good kind of pushing Roxy. Just as long as the person wants to go to college.
My son is going to a prom on Friday.
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Post by babylupin on Apr 17, 2008 6:28:29 GMT -5
That's kind of pushing is concern for a friend, and thinking of their best interest.
I tried to help my sister into taking a Dancing Class, because she really didn't have many friends, and now she does, and she is much more happy for it now. My sister is such a shy person, so it's hard for her to meet people.
Prom, that sounds like fun doesn't it. I remember my formal last year. It was so awesome. It was fun.
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Post by RoxyRocks on Apr 17, 2008 14:30:32 GMT -5
OMG REALLY I have prom on Saturday night I am so excitted !!!!
I have the most gorgeous dress
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Post by nutz4hpotter6 on Apr 17, 2008 17:26:28 GMT -5
Have fun at you prom Roxy.
Yes pushing to help some one is good as long as the person doesn't get angry or feels like they are only doing it to please some one.
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Post by RoxyRocks on Apr 22, 2008 19:27:21 GMT -5
OMG I love the prom its amazing. hahaha actually it was lame but the party i went to after was freaking amazing.
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